not only are we seeking personal validation from the people we assume that we are visible to. we are seeking validation of ideas, concepts and truth, to believe, from people whose ideas have been validated to us.
maniacal power-projection festers from accrued suppression.
makes it obvious that impulsive aggressive control doesn't deal with the actual problem.
release control and it becomes crystal clear that it was waiting to be vented out.
the more and better access everyone has to tools, resources, etc, the clearer it becomes that the final boss bottlenecks are courage, imagination and giving a shit
@tsawrub Perhaps unconditional kindness proceeds from strength. The kindness that doesn't drag along with time to maneuver itself as demand for payback.
@heyitstamanna I mean... It's the same for me. But a lot of it is deliberate. I prefer lessons from life rather than people. This is the case to the point that I think there is no other way to learn than walk barefoot and naked.
make the mistake even if you know that it is a mistake (without being a retard). you'll see how hollow your knowledge of that thing was. how terribly you knew it.
let life scar you.
you cannot slide away with borrowed lessons. life is your sole teacher.
go on with reading books, following advice and other mishaps. but if you think you can understand life that way, then you are gravely deluded.
your temptation to do something that you know is not right means that you lack real understanding.
just do it. see what goes wrong.
the secondhand insight that you borrowed from someone or something can only scare you and offer an illusion of knowledge.