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💯Cebuana | Registered Wife-Happy Wife, Happy Life| Happy mom of xian👦🏽

[Kingmaker @MindHealthMaker]

The older I get, the more I see why it's important to only keep people around who have the same morals, manners, and sense of consideration as you. It's not being picky, it's protecting your peace. When you reach a certain stage in life, chaos and disrespect just aren't entertaining anymore. You start craving calm, mutual respect, and people who move with the same kind of heart as you do

[ris 🍀 @jiwonrx]

segye is the perfect example of why not every character needs to be boxed into the "green flag" or "red flag" category. people are flawed, emotional, and messy by nature, and that doesn't automatically make them a bad person #myroyalnemesis

[baeha 🪐 @jovialroots]

Human approval is unstable. Someone may praise you today and criticize you tomorrow, so it's wiser to anchor your life in deeper principles than in other people's opinions.

[Joy Joy @Joyoky1]

People raised on love will do anything for you. People raised on survival will do anything to you.
Know the difference.

[MOTASE @TheRealMotase]

Can we stop abandoning people the moment they become complicated, intense, uncertain, grieving, overwhelmed, inconvenient, or emotionally difficult to understand?

It’s easy to stay when someone is cheerful, thriving, and easy to love. Real character is revealed when someone is struggling. Human beings are not machines designed to perform happiness at all times. Sometimes the people carrying the heaviest burdens need patience, compassion, and understanding the most. Loyalty means staying present through the uncomfortable chapters, not just the beautiful ones.

[Lawrence Kitema @lawrencekitema]

Until it happens to you, you will understand why people make certain decisions and choices that you think are wrong.

[🍂 @Lovandfear]

“You're the kind of soul anyone would be lucky to be with, and you don't even know it, the great ones never do.”

— Adrian Michael

[LaShonda 🌸 @firstladyships]

Stop explaining yourself to people who benefit from misunderstanding you.

The more you talk, the more they use your words against you. Self-respect is silence where there used to be over-explaining, and distance where there used to be overgiving.

[Curious Minds @CuriousMindsHub]

@readswithravi That’s a beautiful way to flip the script.

If the mind can imagine the worst, it can also imagine possibilities worth moving toward.

[Sonia @BalogunSonia4]

Once you realize how deeply childhood affects adulthood, you begin to see parenting as a lifelong responsibility, not just a phase.

[Lawrence Kitema @lawrencekitema]

Even if it doesn’t work out as planned, life is still the most beautiful and important thing. You can keep trying as many times as you want, as long as you’re alive.

[Muna🦋 @Mouna_Boo]

In this new week, May God prosper the work of our hands and open doors no man can shut.
May He grant us favor in places we didn’t even expect.
May every delay turn into divine alignment.
May our efforts produce results beyond our understanding in Jesus name.🙏🏾

[LLONER 🦅🪐 @eyojoel77]

Disappear to build yourself in private. Nobody cares. Nobody. Avoid people who lower your vibe. And never chase people. Play dumb if you have to, to protect your energy. Trust your gut. Be patient with yourself. Limit your access. Trust me, once you decide you want a good life, people appear, doors open, and miracles light up your life. Sometimes... growth is learning to be alone.

[Dear Self. @Dearme2_]

Neverrrrrrrrrr

[𝗠𝘂𝗵𝗲𝗲 ♛ @muheediva01]

If someone attacks your character instead of addressing what actually happened, it usually means the facts aren't in their favor

[Sheila of the Most High @sheilatebra]

Rage baiting is what Proverbs 26 warns about.

Don’t get pulled into dumb arguments.
And don’t stay silent when truth matters.
Wisdom is knowing when to speak
& when to walk away.

[soosoorandom @sluvity_____]

Do not talk about discernment if you cannot recognise when someone needs compassion more than criticism and correction. There is a time to guide and a time to simply hold space for a person who is hurting. Wisdom knows the difference. And kindness knows it even faster.

[Collins🦋 @collinstimbela_]

What led me to study psychology is realizing that two people can experience the same situation and walk away with two very different perspectives/realities.

[Listen Brother @Listen_Brothers]

• When you meet leaders — honour them, but never worship them.

• When you meet foolish people — avoid them like potholes on a dark road.

• When you meet humble people — treasure them like endangered species.

• When you meet arrogant people — ignore them, they feed on attention.

Pride wears a crown, but wisdom walks barefoot.

[𝙋𝙖𝙢𝙢𝙮 ✨️ @_Pammy_DS_]

I think when you’re transitioning from being a people pleaser into someone with better boundaries it can feel so strange — it's hard to tell if you’re being mean or if you’re simply respecting your own feelings, bcoz you’re so used to putting other people's feelings before yours.