this girl on tiktok said that “discernment is an olympic sport” and I’ve decided this is pretty much the driving sentiment of my life. it is Not all the same. all relationships are not equal. you Are responsible for your choices. your passivity is just carelessness
I really think that if you are aware of your personal shortcomings and try really hard to work on them you can fix a lot. Most people do not do this because spending a lot of time on your flaws is highly unpleasant
i think dating apps should collaborate/partner with therapists and therapy centres. my therapist suggested “hinge” as a good app to meet new people and to try dating again. lots of opportunities for consumer growth here.