@All_Love_Hurts@nycdivorcelaw Not always. Anyone can feel attraction for others (maybe once every 10 years) but restraing is useful in this case. You value your commitment and your long term happiness over the short term spark. This worked for most couples over centuries.
@GeorgeBruno You may want to delve into that. How the transition works. After my divorce I was terrified of being alone. I used to feel like an NPC when going out alone. Now, the peace is so nice...
@mateorieve "machos de mis amigas"... claro indicador de que esta mujer pertenece al grupo de uso recreativo. Es un error desde todo punto de vista considerarla para una relación.
@spermifex Muy pocas mujeres entienden la carga de un hombre que provee y protege. No piensa en que las cortinas combinen con el mantel. Piensa en el trabajo, los ahorros, las deudas, la inflación, los "compañeros" que le serruchan el piso. Viven en una nube las minas
@tramadolcada12 Desde hace por lo menos 30 años la "nueva religión" prohibe controlar impulsos, no seguir el deseo inmediato. No hay educación emocional. La frustración en la vida es inevitable. Los resultados están a la vista en lo financiero/afectivo/familiar.
@aruvinchan I was married to an 8 for many years. Crazy as sh*t. When I re-entered the market, my standards were not calibrated. Being rejected by a 2 was a reality check. I worked on my game and adjusted my target. I pull girls in the range of 3-7 easily. It works.
@Marcela252016 Se le reconoce el gesto de hacerse cargo del error. Cada uno sigue su camino, esperando que él/ella haya aprendido para la próxima. Es extremadamente difícil seguir luego de eso.
@BachelorJoker You got engaged at 20-22 with your first/second gf-bf, you put the effort, enjoyed life together, have kids, endured this crazy world. When you were 50 you started enjoying your grandkids. Life was simple. People in their 50s acting like teenagers are odd.
@LuisMiguelReal4 Una infidelidad históricamente era algo peor que un fraude. Y acarreaba, al menos, el escarnio social, y eventualmente consecuencias civiles. En algunas culturas, también penales. Hemos decidido olvidar eso y así estamos.
@pearlythingz I stayed 10 years with my ex because of this. Every time she started yelling at the kids I would direct the attack to me so she would leave them alone.