There's nothing wrong in fighting for men's rights
There's nothing wrong believing that there should be equality
But when your experience with women has been hard & unfavorable, that affects the way you see the world
*A thread
#MillennialPerspective#MasculinitySaturday
So today I watched a really disturbing story on Citizen TV about the late Justice David Majanja, and honestly, it left me with questions.
Justice Majanja passed away in 2024 and left assets worth over KSh 22 million. He also left a very clear will, everything to his last-born brother, because he trusted him to take care of their ageing parents.
Now here’s where it gets ugly. His other sisters and brothers allegedly went to court and got orders stopping the release of the money. Their argument? That if the will is implemented, they’ll be "disadvantaged" because they may not get anything.
Meanwhile, the parents are fully okay with the will. They’ve been begging the courts to release the funds. The father is sick with cancer and other complications, and they have no money.
Let me ask us honestly: since when did a sibling’s hard-earned wealth become a family entitlement? When did greed start wearing the mask of fairness?
If a will is clear and no minors are affected, courts should protect intent, not entertain selfish delays. Justice delayed here is cruelty, not caution.
And, let’s teach our children this simple truth: you are not entitled to what your brother or sister builds.
So tell me, are these siblings right, or have we normalized injustice in the name of "family"?
I'm in love with this quote: 'If it doesn't happen the way you wanted, it will happen in a better way than you imagined.' That's the beauty of God's plan.
A Gen Z joined the team.
Week one.
During onboarding, the manager said,
“We sometimes stay late during peak periods.”
Gen Z nodded.
Then asked,
“Is that paid… or just expected?”
The room went quiet.
- No attitude.
- No rebellion.
- Just a question.
Later that day, HR mentioned “growth opportunities.”
Gen Z replied,
“Does growth include raises, or just more responsibility?”
Again, silence.
- No laziness.
- No entitlement.
- Just clarity.
That’s when the team realized something.
When people say
“Gen Z is lazy,”
what they really mean is:
Gen Z watched old generation
- skip meals,
- miss birthdays,
- work weekends,
- and burn out
only to be told
“budgets are tight”
and “be grateful you have a job.”
So Gen Z chose differently.
- They don’t romanticize overwork.
- They don’t confuse suffering with ambition.
- They don’t trade health for praise.
They still work hard.
They just refuse to work for nothing.
It’s not laziness.
It’s pattern recognition.
And honestly,
after everything old generation went through…
Can you really blame them?
Your life can't be full of negativity and anger throughout.
Don't live a life of cursing, hating, whining and insulting others.
Anger, rage and hate in your life will harm you.
You will burst.
Learn to ignore things that are beyond your control.
Before you go to bed tonight, reflect on this verse and send it to someone with a dream.
HABAKKUK 2:2 "And the LORD answered me, and said, Write the vision, and make it plain upon tables, that he may run that readeth it."
Dear God, I lift my vision and my loved ones up to You today. I trust that You have a purpose for us. Please give us the clarity to see it, the faith to write it down, and the patience to wait for Your perfect timing.
Guide our steps as we run the race You have set before us.
If God has been good to you, pass this encouragement to someone you love. Don't forget Amen!
We will mourn Raila Odinga like we never had any differences with him. We will mourn him not because he was always good to us, but because the democracy we enjoy today stands on his shoulders. He bears the scars, and he deserves the credit.🕊️
Children are not an achievement. They are an assignment.
Don't rush to have children if you lack the structure to complete the assignment of fatherhood.
@MHWKenya I have a question. How do you differentiate between a person who's really suicidal and those who use suicide as an excuse to seek attention or be bailed out of their difficult situations ?
@emmamwanje10 Jabez.
His story is just two verses long, but the weight of it is felt across generations.
A man who refused to let pain define his destiny.
I’d love to sit with him and ask: What made you pray that bold prayer?
No one tells you how hard it is to rewire your brain to allow amazing things to happen after experiencing so much trauma or pain.
Blessings exist, good people exist, and a softer life exists, Let it happen.
my therapist advised, "learn to calm your own storm instead of venting to others. it may feel therapeutic to let it all out, but you reinforce negative thoughts. it’s no one’s job but yours to pull yourself out of your problems. journal, meditate, exercise,and release." felt that
becoming less reactive is a huge part of growth and decreasing stress. if you let everything get you worked up, you will damage your mind, body and spirit.
Nobody really talks about how waiting on God is hard. Somedays you have it altogether and some days you burst into tears wondering how long this season would take.