I always see people talking about bpd as if it's a death sentence. Yes it is hard and sucks, but it isn't incurable. The diagnosis is made out of criteria, and if you work on yourself you may no longer meet said criteria. Your diagnosis isn't an excuse to be a shit person.
if my partner doesnt get hard from seeing me in my casket then he was never the one. I want them to not be sad but sexually aroused by it and i wont take any other form of โloveโ