I should not be watching B2B SAAS automation courses or reading about the 10 y note. I should be drawing the portrait of a French girl who hates me and thinks i’m gauche
@FrenchOG3 what are other ways to shut this down?
recently they have been asking me this but going for fwb and I assume they want smth serious
I always say "looking for my wife but will settle for a funny story"
Some thoughts:
1. Aella & her circle have a history of rejecting dialogue to the point where public comment becomes the only option
2. She has a large platform, so if someone feels she is using it to prop up a harmful person (esp exposing potential partners ie at orgies),
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I believe that the threshold of how much embarrassment a person can tolerate determines the size of the life they can live. every meaningful act requires the risk of looking foolish: beginning anything, speaking your truth, wanting visibly, attempting what you might fail at publicly. the people who cannot tolerate embarrassment do not get to do these things, or they do them only in secret, where the embarrassment is contained. the people who have made their peace with embarrassment, who have decided it isn’t a verdict but a sensation, get access to a larger version of being alive. the difference between the two lives is enormous and it is almost entirely about embarrassment.