A lot of humans don’t realize that they thrive off of projecting bc they’re not self aware or honest enough with themselves to reflect on the roots of their shame and insecurities … in-fact they just meet others that share the same insecurities and further perpetuate them.
The amount of intentionality you need to balance with an unshakable sense of self worth and not overthinking and also being ready to risk it all for success while ignoring the call of shame just to advance your life can feel mad tiring!
Rich kids being able to do art for a living may be a reflection of their privilege but it seems to me like a reflection of the fact that a human that doesn't have to worry about money will often choose art. everyone is an artist until rent is due. i wish we all had that right
lots of women’s downfall comes from their hyper-empathy. we might treat people way more softly cuz we see the child in them that may have suffered. but sometimes those people can take advantage of that.
so save your deepest empathy for those who truly need it & for urself too.🩶
I only want empathetic , kind , slow to anger , patient, soft , understanding, humorous, loving and whimsical people around keep the hound dog behavior 50,000 miles away.
You cannot spend years breaking a child's spirit and then expect a few words in adulthood to repair what took years to destroy. You cannot teach a child to fear your footsteps, your voice, your moods, and your anger, then expect them to see you as a source of comfort later in life.
once you turn 20 you have to fight everyday for the rest of your life to not lose your personality & spirit...bc what once came naturally to you will be exhausted into nothing if you don't actively Try. it's terrifyingly easy to become a lethargic, soulless adult
i have to treat my body better, not to attract a lover or an audience, but because my body is a conduit for the entire life experience. this body is a container for all possible consciousness. it is my job to live a life that this enhanced vessel can sustain with ease and joy .
hey is it okay if i decide to be an active participant in my life for the first time after a lifetime of trauma making me feel like i need permission to exist