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[EllenDegrenades @m4jdy]

@IM_YARA4 You said sorry means something to him

[EllenDegrenades @m4jdy]

Teringin nk beraya dgn makpak sedara, sepupu sepapan.

Tpi tu lah, bini nk tdo

[EllenDegrenades @m4jdy]

Pkui 11 baru nk bangun. Tu pun tgk telpon dlu. Org cmni aku nk harap urus anak2 aku. Hadui.

[EllenDegrenades @m4jdy]

Bini aku boleh plak kata dia suka tengok aku susah, baru x senang2 cari org lain.

Aku ingatkan org paling dekat ni tulang belakang yg support aku tpi lain yg dia pikir rupanya.

[EllenDegrenades @m4jdy]

Nk berpisah kesian kat anak2, tpi hidup hari2 mcm ni letih lah

[STUNNER @Cr7Godbrand]

Yall need to stop disrespecting men’s hardwork.

You are able to clean because he pays for the home.

You are able to cook because he pays for the gas and electricity.

You are able to do laundry because he paid for the washing machine.

You are able to pack for the kids because he provided the clothes, food, and supplies.

You are able to organize the home because he gave you a home worth organizing.

You are able to put the kids to bed because they are not homeless, starving, or sleeping on the street.

Even “looking beautiful” is a luxury made possible by provision. Comfort creates appearance.

His so called “work” is the foundation that makes all of this possible. Remove his labor and everything collapses.

The work you mock is the reason your daily tasks even exist. Without it, there is no household to manage, no family to raise, and no life of comfort to brag about.

Men build the ground. Everything else stands on it.

[hdgavwgw @na_adf]

Isteri yang bekerja tetap wajib melayan suami. Bekerja tu bukan tanggungjawab utama isteri. Taat itu yang utama.

Sebagaimana lelaki yang menjaga anak dan buat kerja rumah tetap wajib keluar mencari nafkah, begitulah juga isteri yang memilih untuk bekerja, tanggungjawab dalam perkahwinan tidak gugur hanya kerana ada kerjaya.

Penat bekerja bukan alasan untuk culas tanggungjawab rumahtangga, baik isteri atau suami

[مُحِبُّ الله اَلعَيدروس. ☀️ @ibjela]

“Sebaik-baik harta seorang lelaki adalah isteri yang solehah.

Apabila dia melihatnya, dia akan menggembirakan.

Apabila dia memberi arahan kepadanya, dia akan taat.

Dan apabila dia tidak berada di sisinya, wanita itu menjaga maruah dirinya.”

- Hadis Riwayat Abu Daud

[Farid Affy @faridaffy]

Bila seseorang boss tak pandai nak lead, dia micro-manage. Setuju?

[مُحِبُّ الله اَلعَيدروس. ☀️ @ibjela]

Antara sebab Islam melarang kita menunjuk2 adalah supaya tak menyusahkan orang lain.

Contohnya, suami bank in RM3k bg isteri sebagai duit Raya. Isteri pun screenshot, upload kat socmed dgn caption terima kasih sayangku, best shuben ever. Biasalah perempuan kan mmg suka buat benda2 bodoh gitu.

Pastu followers dari kalangan isteri2 B40 pula tengok, rasa nak jugak, teringin, pastu demand ngan laki memasing yang membanting tulang siang malam utk nafkah cukup2 makan.

Laki tu pun transfer la RM50 sambil telan air liur. Nk bagi lebih, spenda sendiri pun koyak-koyak, lenjan jugak pakai utk tahun ke-5. Tak beli baru sbb nk jimat punya pasal.

Isteri pun dapat RM50 je terus tarik muncung panjang, mula question nape la laki dia ni miskin. Hari2 kerja pun miskin. Tah ye tah tidak hari2 keluar g kerja. Tah2 ada pompuan lain. Tu yg asek takde duit je manjang.

Pastu dah berantakan rumahtangga. Puncanya apa? Perasaan tidak bersyukur sbb selepas tengok orang lain menunjuk2.

Sama jugak macam pompuan pakai seksi2 pastu payung selfie lurah tonggek bagai kat socmed. Yang kaki porno duk tengok duk like dah bayang macam2.

Pastu nafsu pun jd gila, setan cucuk suruh merogol. Tp nk rogol yg dia duk tengok kat socmed tu takleh, sbb org tu tweetpemes, kenal pun tak.

So dia pun cari la mangsa mana2 yg terdekat. Kene pulak jiran sbelah rumah ada pompuan budak sekolah yg dia slalu nampak jalan sorang2. Padahal budak tu takde pun pakai seksi2. Tp dah dia terbayang yg dia duk tengok kat socmed tu, budak tu pun jadi la, dh tu je yg ada.

Inilah contoh bagaimana pakaian tak cukup kain meningkatkan kes rogol. Lebih parah lagi bila tukang buat tu tak kena pape, tp org lain yg takde kena mengena pula jadi mangsa.

Do whatever you want with this information.

[Richard Ker @richardker]

As you grow older…

You begin to realise that your time on earth is limited.

10 years, 20 years gone past you really quick.

Then many things that used to bother you, don’t seem to matter anymore.

You know…

The unnecessary dramas.
What others might think of you.
The toxic people around you.

You just want to focus on what truly matters.

Peacefulness.
Self-improvement.
Giving back to the society.
Connect with quality people.
Rooting for others to succeed.

Because no one knows when is our last day on this beautiful world.

Do good. Care for others. Be genuinely nice and kind.

That could be the only legacy we’re leaving behind.

Good night.

[مُحِبُّ الله اَلعَيدروس. ☀️ @ibjela]

Cara perempuan moden pastikan suami setia.

[Faisal Rahim @acaiijawa]

Beruntung orang yang hatinya tenang, fikirannya lapang dan jiwa rasa bahagia ketika bangun dari tidur.

Kadangkala ia sukar dimiliki sekalipun punyai harta yang banyak.

Kalau nak hidup tenang, jadi orang yang baik-baik. Sentiasa jaga hubungan dengan Allah dan sesama manusia.

[🔮✨ @TheOracleReadsU]

You’re not lazy or unmotivated. After years of living in survival mode, you're emotionally drained. No amount of sleep in the world can cure the tiredness you feel. You have experienced soul loss, and developed a spiritual fatigue that can only be cured by soul nourishment.

[AJ+ @ajplus]

The first videos from Gaza after Israel’s blackout shows Palestinians forced to drink seawater and using phones to find thousands trapped under rubble.

Relentless strikes have killed over 8,000 people.

[Assim Alhakeem @Assimalhakeem]

He must admonish her and bring her back to her senses by reminding her of who the man is in the house. If advising her doesn’t work, he should take her to counseling

If she refuses or it doesn’t help, he should call her father and give him an ultimatum to scold his daughter and fix her. If she is not fixed, he must ditch her and marry someone else who is younger, more beautiful and more religious who would take good care of him and make him forget such hardship that she made him go through!

[Pain Depression & Anxiety @ILLUMINUSNUMBx]

I feel trapped!

[مُحِبُّ الله اَلعَيدروس. ☀️ @ibjela]

Syurga bagi isteri itu mudah, jaga ibadat Fardhu, dan dapatkan redha suami.

Isteri2 leni ramai pandang enteng dgn redha suami. Ramai yg kejar redha majikan, kejar gaji, kerjaya, handbag, kasut, mekap, skincare, K-Pop. Bab jaga suami kelaut.

Sbb tu perempuan ramai dalam Neraka.

[Belle 🎀 @NabellaAnuar]

Teringat kawan kawan dok melepak and cerita betapa stress and kelam kabut hidup masing masing sbb jaga anak. Mental health tak terjaga.

And then, dorang tanya I, “belle bila nak ada anak?”

I jawab “taknak..”

Semua terkejut & convince I ada anak pula.

I jwb “taktau mcmana korang ni jd founder and meniaga sbb tak pandai marketing langsung. You guys cerita benda tak best psl jaga anak and then suruh I ada anakkk.. 😭”