One thing about it I run a strict program in general neh but the nicest thing about it is that umuntu anga hamba bandla anytime they feel like ngiyam'bhedela 🥹
"You currently need R2000 for food from someone who needs R20 000 to fix his car and he is looking up to his friend who needs R200 000 for his business.
He is asking it from his Brother who needs R2M to complete his House. His Brother is in turn asking the bank credit manager for a financing of R2OM to execute a government tender contract for the same government that is requesting a loan of R200B from China.
Everyone has problems!
That R200 you are getting from someone is out of sacrifice and love.
Appreciate it!"
1. I do not tolerate disrespect, even as a joke.
2. I walk away the first time you cross my boundary.
3. I do not repeat myself more than twice.
4. I cut off what disturbs my peace
5. I do not argue to be understood.
6. I observe patterns, not apologies.
7. I value my time too much for nonsense.
8. I block and move on without announcements.
9. You don’t come to my house uninvited, no matter who you are or how close we are.
10. I do not tolerate lies, even small ones
11. I protect my reputation fiercely.
12. I do not tolerate lateness without reason.
13. When I pay you for a service, I expect results not excuses.
14. If I lend you money, make sure you pay it back on the agreed date. If not, I’ll never do you that favor again.
15. I do not overshare my plans.
16. If you’re double-minded about being with me, I’ll move on.
17. I end things cleanly and permanently.
18. You don’t use any of my things without my permission.
19. I don’t like people who talk too much.
20. I hate when things aren’t done the right way. I once confronted someone for dumping refuse illegally. If I see you committing a crime, I’m likely to report you. I won’t turn a blind eye.
I’m at the point in my life where I promise you I will not deal with anyone I don’t have to. I’m leaving, blocking, and doing anything I have to do to not deal with people and situations where I’m not respected or valued