You can say gender neutral, you can have many sexual orientation.
But hundreds years from now, if Archeologist find your bone, they will say you either Male or female.
When I have a daughter. If she’s 18 and brings home a man 30+. I will fight him. I don’t care how polite or well mannered he is. I couldn’t care less how well I raised my daughter and how mature she thinks she is. He knows what he’s doing.