It’s no accident the median white family wealth is $147K & median Black family wealth is $3600. In the 1940-50s the FHA gave white people home loans but denied Black people. Those $10K homes are now worth $500K
In our lifetimes US Govt robbed every Black family of half a million
the idea that saying "i love you" a lot devalues it relies upon a framework of value stemming from scarcity which stands in contradiction to the fact that the beauty of love is found in its abundance.