Lock him without tease or touch. Just pure denial.
At first it will be okay, then he will feel like he's missing out, then he may even lose some libido since there's nothing going.
This is okay! Persist!
Libido tends to have a habit of coming back, but it also does something else.
The longer he is locked without touch or tease, the more his mind begins to accept his chastity cage. That he's caged not because its arousing and fun, but because it's how she wants him kept. At all times.
Which means he needs to learn to accept the non-arousing version of chastity too. The version of chastity where it feels pointless being locked, yet still completely surrendered to it.
It's in this subtle chastity that the real chastity begins. The chastity that tells him that no matter how he feels, aroused, pointless, bored, unaroused.... he stays locked.
This forces him to face all the psychological objects that fight against chastity. It makes him feel uncomfortable, but it also trains him to rise above that discomfort.
This is how he comes to accepting chastity as a part of him, and will cause him to miss the cage when it's not on and always surrendered to it when it is. It's the perfect teacher of self-control and service.
While its fun to make chastity difficult to endure through extreme arousal, teasing, edging, and ruined orgasms, and giving her orgasms without him having one.....Learning to stay chaste in the subtleties of every day life, has just as many lessons to teach, and will enhance his obedient nature in even more ways. #FLR
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Practical FLR: Chastity Management Protocol is a complete 90-day system for your female-led relationship.
With binding lock-up contracts, daily journal entries and daily checklists for her to structure each day with clarity, power exchange is taken to the next level!
The included 90 day journal is for him to document his emotional journey, as well as 90 daily checklists for her to assign him tasks and chores and track his progress using a unique points system.
To start it all off, is a chastity lock-up contract that signs away all negotiation ability and makes her rule his law. Once signed there will be no compromise, and the protocol will hold him accountable for every action.
The best thing about the protocol is that it is fully customizable for her to create the exact FLR she wants.
The protocol includes many more tools for her to utilize for complete dominance such as:
Lock-Up Points Cards: Every lock-up can be customized with a clearly defined points and demerits system.
Infraction Trackers: Designed as optional cut-outs to give to him, clearly expressing the infraction and the punishment to come!
Reward and Punishment Cards: These cards will have him striving to earn or struggling to avoid!
Reward and Punishment Menu: This is a custom list of rewards and punishments to choose when needed.
Unlock and Release Trackers: Every unlock and its reason is recorded, as well as the conditions of release!
Weekly Plan and Review: Every week, she can review his quality of service and obedience, and determine his privileges for the week.
Monthly Plan and Notes: Here she can plot out the goals for the month and his minimum requirements. Each week is reviewed here to provide a total performance rating to track each month!
Master Record: Everything is recorded, and written in stone! He gets away with nothing, ever!
Daily Points Record: Every day his point performance is recorded, track his improvements each month!
His FLR Wish List: Here he can express his fantasies, and she can decide if she's interested in it or not.
Her FLR Vision: This is where she can lay it all out, exactly what she wants, and he can weigh in on his comfort level. This helps create discussions about the future and where the FLR is ultimately heading!
FLR Notes: The perfect place to write down all thoughts, reflections, inspirations and anything else.
The Chastity Management Protocol gives her all of the power and him none of it. He gets away with nothing from the moment that lock-up contract is signed!
It's the perfect control and obedience protocol that every FLR needs to turn power exchange into a structured and undeniable reality!
For dominant women who desire total control, and submissive men who crave true submission, The Chastity Management Protocol is for you!