@gihleeee@efeemena I get that having sex with someone else literally that night is icky, to say the least. Your second statement then trips me up again. Shouldn't him going out of his way to "fix" it by making sure she doesn't find out indicate he wants the relationship to continue?
@gihleeee@efeemena Thank you for the explanation. I have a lot of issues with it but that's a separate conversation. I also agree that a break in a grown adult relationship is crazy.
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Good morning everyone, his killer Kelvin Ezeigbe Oniarah was sentenced in 2013.
President Tinubu granted him clemency last year 2025, and he is set to be released this year.
Thanks for your attention to this matter.
@viswaggie I'm literally working with biomarkers ,p16 and ki67 in the immunohistochemical analysis of cervical intraepithelial neoplasia and cervical cancer. The cost itself is intimidating .
I’ve spent the past couple of weeks building Looters: a public archive of Nigerian political corruption since the 1990s.
Governors, ministers, shell companies, Swiss accounts, the Jersey trusts, — one searchable graph.
You too can connect the dots: https://t.co/faIfzWfAIp
I worked 20 years for a child sex trafficking rescue group. I want you to know this:
90% of Lost Children Are Found Within 30 Minutes.
That statistic should both comfort you and wake you up.
Most lost children are found quickly. But the ones who aren’t? They usually made one mistake.
And here’s the uncomfortable truth:
It’s often the exact thing most parents teach them.
We tell our kids:
“If you get lost, come find me.”
It sounds logical. It sounds empowering.
It’s WRONG!
The Mistake Most Lost Children Make:
When children realize they’re separated, they do three things almost automatically:
They panic.
They wander.
They try to find you.
Every step makes them harder to locate.
From a search standpoint, movement creates chaos.
Parents retrace their steps.
Security scans zones.
Staff lock down areas.
Search works best when movement stops.
When a child keeps walking, they move outside the original search radius. Helpers are looking where they were last seen — not where they’ve wandered.
Stillness increases probability.
Movement expands the problem.
The first lesson is not “go find me.”
It’s this:
Stop. Stay. Yell.
Why Stillness Wins:
Think like a search team.
If a child stays put:
Parents can retrace steps.
Security can scan systematically.
Helpers converge to one fixed location.
The search radius remains small.
If a child keeps moving:
The search area expands.
Adults pass each other.
Missed connections multiply.
Minutes stretch into hours.
Stillness keeps the math on your side.
Teach Them Who to Approach:
The second mistake we make as parents?
We say, “Find an adult.”
Not any adult. Not the nearest stranger. Children need a filter.
Teach them to look for, if at all possible:
A mother with children.
Caregivers who already have kids with them are statistically among the safest people to approach in public settings. They are visible, stationary, and more likely to engage quickly.
It’s a clear, concrete instruction.
Children don’t process vague categories like “safe adult.”
They process visuals.
“Find a mom with kids” is visual.
A Phone Only Helps If the Number Is Known:
We often assume phones solve everything.
They don’t — unless your child can use one. Even young children can memorize a 10-digit phone number with repetition.
But you must train it.
Practice it like a song.
Sing it in the car.
Chant it at bedtime.
Turn it into rhythm.
Repetition becomes recall.
In an emergency, recall matters more than theory.
The Code Word Rule:
One more layer of protection.
Choose a private family code word.
Something only your household knows.
If someone approaches and says:
“Your mom sent me.”
Your child asks:
“What’s the code word?”
No word.
No go.
This simple rule eliminates manipulation attempts instantly.
It gives your child agency without requiring them to evaluate character.
Real Safety Is Training — Not Luck!
We don’t get safer by hoping.
We get safer by practicing.
Teach:
• Phone number
• Code word
• Stop, stay, yell
• Find a mom with kids
Multiple skills.
Simple instructions.
Clear visuals.
Five minutes of training can replace hours of panic. This isn’t about fear. It’s about preparation.
Because when a child gets separated, the clock starts.
And what they do in the first minute determines what the next thirty look like.
That’s real protection.
I don't know who needs to hear this, but GET UP. Ask God to breathe His spirit back into you. You've been lying dormant for far too long. Ask Him to restore your creativity, your purpose, your joy, your love, your health, and your sound mind. You've slept long enough in depression, anxiety, overthinking, bitterness, loneliness, grief, brokenness, financial stress, abandonment wounds, relationship trauma, and destructive habits. Today is the last day. GET UP! Get up for your future self. Get up for your kids. Get up for the dreams God placed inside you. Get up and take your life back.
I never believed when people said “Nigeria will eventually happen to you”… until now.
I passed my Nursing Council exams in May 2025, but my name was mistakenly written as “Ibrahima” instead of Ibrahim on the portal.
Since then, I have paid for correction of name and followed up for months through my school, and our school focal person has contacted the council ICT team multiple times yet, the issue is still unresolved.
Now with the new NMCN portal, the problem has even worsened:
- My portal shows I did Public Health Nursing (which I didn’t).
- My exam number was altered.
- My name is still incorrect.
Because of this, I cannot obtain my practicing license, and I was fired from my workplace. I have lost several job opportunities after attending interviews with NGOs like Action Against Hunger, Médecins Sans Frontières (@MSF), and the International Rescue Committee(@RESCUEorg)
I also plan to further my education, but this license issue has completely fcked up my progress.
Please retweet and comment until this reaches the Nursing and Midwifery Council of Nigeria so this issue can finally be resolved. 🙏
A simple correction of my name is all I have been asking for since May 2025
Except a man be born again, he cannot see the kingdom of God.
Have you been to Jesus for the cleansing power?
Are you washed in the blood of the Lamb?
Are your garment spotless, are they white as snow,
Are you washed in the blood of the Lamb.