I believe that people's actions can make it clear that they have no respect or regard for you, regardless of what they say. Their actions clearly indicate that they don't value you. When you notice this, take it for what is.
You have listened to hundreds of hours of Islamic content and you are not a different person. Knowledge is a tool. It was never the outcome.
Allah created death and life to test which of you is best in deed. Not which of you knows the most.
الإمام الشافعي رحمه الله كان يقول : "سيروا إلى الله عرجى ومكاسير ، ولا تنتظروا الصحة ، فإن انتظار الصحة بطالة "
ومعنى هذا الكلام : إذا أحسست وأنت تمشي في هذه الحياة أن عبادتك مليئة بالمطبات ، وبعدم وجود روح في العبادة ، أو هناك تقطع أو ملل من العبادة ، أو ثقل على النفس
Bir kimseyi sevdiğinde, bil ki çoğu zaman o da seni seviyordur.
Rasûlullah ﷺ
Ruhlar, toplanmış ordular gibidir. Onlardan birbirini tanıyanlar kaynaşır; birbirini tanımayanlar ise ayrılıp uzaklaşır.
İbn Mes‘ûd رضي الله عنه
Hiç kimseye sana karşı olan sevgisini sorma. Fakat senin ona karşı kalbinde ne bulunduğuna bak. Çünkü onun kalbinde de sana karşı bunun bir benzeri vardır.
Ibn Al-Qayyim رحمه الله said:
“Whoever fills their heart with satisfaction of qadr (decree of Allah), Allah will fill his heart with richness, safety and contentment.”
(مدارج السالكين)
@Nylasback The strongest love isn't built on silence.
It's built on honesty, tough conversations, and mutual growth.
Speak what's heavy, listen with intent, adjust with care.
Communication doesn't destroy intimacy, it makes it unstoppable.
Prophet ﷺ said,
“Whoever among you wakes up secure in his property, healthy in his body, and he has his food for the day it is as if he were given the entire world.”
[Tirmidhi 2346]
ربنا آتنا في الدنيا حسنة وفي الآخرة حسنة وقنا عذاب النار
[Rabbanā ātinā fīd-dunyā ḥasanatan wa-fīl-ākhirati ḥasanatan wa-qinā ʿadhāban-nār]
Our Lord, grant us good in this world, and good in the Hereafter, and protect us from the torment of the Fire
Abu Ubaydah ibn al-jarrah, comforting Umar ibn al-Khattab:
“Why the sorrow? Have you been deprived of Paradise? Or given news of the Fire? Take it easy, this life is nothing but a few days, and then we pass on. So do not be sad; everything in it is tiring, and everyone in it is weary.
Praise be to Allah that this world is not our true home, nor our permanent dwelling, and that our final settlement will be with the Lord of all creation. Praise be to Allah that it is only a worldly life that will come to an end. And may it be that in Paradise we find comfort and give comfort. Here I am indeed, the true life is the life of the Hereafter.”