This year guys I want you to flex on a black child as a much a possible . I challenge you guys to make a difference in one school child's life from a disadvantaged background . You can :
1 Buy one school child school shoes
2 Mentor a matric learner
Because before he was was a rapist, he was my brother, my cousin, my best friend. By raping someone it does not automatically terminate the relashionship we have
@Palesamadiba@makukejaks@Karabo_Mokgoko Exactly..people are weird I just feel I'm not in the rapy mind frame so how could I even be around someone like that.Ive cut off people I don't trust that's just me..It avoids bigger issues in future.If you are my friend and you hang around rapists I may look at you differently
I want to understand the supportive friend narrative but I can't divorce it from the idea of enabling friends who knew their friend held problematic views and never called them out for their sexism and general rapey vibe, until it lead to rape.