But, I don't know why it's that way. Overly religious people are the worse wives, worse husbands, worse employee, worse bosses.
An overly religious wife will disrespect her husband but kneel to her pastor. She has the worse character at home, but the best character in church. She probably even goes early to clean the church without cooking for her husband and kids.
An overly religious husband will lose his mind at home, abuse his wife, starve his kids and convert the starvation to "fasting and prayers".. but stand on the alter to preach "peace" and "holiness".
An overly religious employee will break office rules just to attend a mid-week service. They'll come to work late, because they were awake for hallelujah challenge and slept very late. They'll complete the sleep at the office, and then expect their employer to overlook their haphazard and lackadaisical work.
An overly religious employer? The worse. They won't even employ you if you can't speak in tongues.
In church, we had a conference... and one woman was preaching about love. This is same woman that I didn't even know was my stylist's mum. You wouldn't even know she is married or have kids. I was even thinking she's widowed. She hardly ever smiles.
When she asked if anyone had a question. I indicated, and then I asked why we have never seen her with her husband, and why she's always frowning. She went chill.
Because honestly, she doesn't embody the love she preaches. She burnt her kids clothes, bought by her husband - their father, and made them Ankara so they don't "reveal" their bodies.
She fortunately or unfortunately passed away, and her kids now look so good. They didn't shed a single tear on her burial.
Overly religious people are wicked people. They're people who have been "tried" in life, and then resorted to God. Not because they acknowledge God as their maker and shield, but because they want God to solve their problems. When their problems aren't solved, they become more bitter and dangerous. But, they're deaconesses in church.
@donald_oohi4me@jon_d_doe She asked you what she can do for you in return you de say she can’t do what you want.
What happened to keep taking care of my guy and being loyal and respectful to him?
We met on the 1st October, 1985 as teenagers; and never stopped holding each other.
Gen Z will think it's a Cinderella story.
Bonded with: Pure love. Trust. Faith. and Loyalty.
I am a fashion guy right from time ooo! 😅
GEJ should just relish on his goodwill and not let anyone ruin things for him.
Yes, we did him dirty in 2015, but that ship has long sailed.
For me, I prefer him as a well respected former president of Nigeria.
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Shey dem wear bra inside singlet?
Abi toto water no dey stain boxers?
If I as a man can give you my boxers or singlet to wear, then it means that I want to fuck you, I am fucking you or you've accepted to fuck me.
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What do we not learn here?
People who are not in this community are just missing out on gold. Pure wisdom.
This explains why that young man from the previous thread asked if she's human.
I recall the very first day I visited my man. There's this cookware set he was talking about getting.
It's a 16pcs dinner set I sell.
Not only did I visit with my transport, I visited for the first time with a huge surprise.
Even if he later sent the money for it, he was beyond shocked.
I recall him coming to pick me up from the junction and his eyes widened in absolute amazement when he spotted me holding a very big carton. He was like "I hope this isn't what I'm thinking?"...
Fast-forward to the part where perfection meets cuisine and mastery meets bedroom. (If you don't gerrit, forget about it😂).
This man comes back home from work, he comes to a really tidy space. Food then when we just started, was either served or almost done. But it got better. Better to the part where I do not only set the table before he returns, I prep the next day's meal and pack it as early as 5am.
And my man? Oh my daysss!
He's an appreciation machine.
"Babe, thank you very much for this meal, I really appreciate you"
"Oh babe, you washed my short? I was going to repeat it again"..
Infact, I once washed his clean suit. 😂
This isn't pretense as many would think. I learnt most of this already from my parents.
Cohabiting is teaching me speed and time management.
It's not so easy but I tell you, it's worth the ride.
I've wowed my man to the point where he says, "Babe, if you're pretending at this point, just keep pretending for the rest of your life😂😂😂🤌🏻".
Ladies, you got it in you. You've not just allowed yourself to come out and be useful. You think your feminine energy is a joke?
Give a man respect, good food, great sex and peace of mind. And watch him spoil you silly for the rest of his days.
Good men are in existence. You've just been too rigid to unlock that.