@Roaringliger1@Gzalzi well i dont take 3 hours to get ready thats more for the people who say they have time blindness and then just sit there, and im more so talking about set plans with an agreed upon time and if hr coming from somewhere else or something say the time u can get there
@Roaringliger1@Gzalzi like i do the thing of sitting around until i have to get ready and leave which is why i overestimate my time sooooo fuckinf much. like it takes me 30 min to get ready? i give myself an hour. it takes me an hour to get there? i give myself an hour and a half to two.
@Roaringliger1@Gzalzi i’m also someone who’s commute is regularly over an hour and relies solely on public transit in one of the busiest cities that’s oftentimes delayed or cancelled, and yet i’m still early to everything bc i always account for it and pad the time so i just don’t understand
@sumnerslove i had 2 hours to spare w a friend once and they showed up an hour and a half late so we only hung out for 30 mins and then i was the one feeling guilty for cutting the hangout so short but also like.. 😭girl.
@SaltPretzels427 see i live in a city w unreliable transit so i always leave 2 buses before the latest one i cna take before im late 😭 that way i have 2 backup options (the buses come every 20 mins)
I’m gonna be so real idgaf if a disabled person IS asking for special treatment and not just reasonable accommodations bc do you have ANY idea how much harder it is to exist in the world as a disabled person?? we deserve special treatment sometimes as compensation tbh
@dr3amrot@bmobrainrot@doggirljesus i feel like you described it perfectly 😭 like i don’t view the men as human and they don’t view me as human and it’s dehumanizing and i felt dirty and i always had to get reallyyyy drunk to do it
@bmobrainrot@doggirljesus i haven’t done it in a while i’m not in active ptsd anymore but like… i had no attraction to them and i literally would feel like shit after and shower a shit ton and feel dirty 😭
@bmobrainrot@doggirljesus i don’t like men doesn’t mean i didn’t used to have sex w them as a form of self harm bc of ptsd 😭 i always felt terrible after and i had to get wasted every single time in order to do it so 😭