guys, i cannot stress this enough— please invest in learning about yourself.
finding the root of your triggers/attachment styles will completely change your life. learning how to ground yourself, rather than irrationally react is something i wish i knew so much sooner.
please remember that those who truly love and respect you will care about how their actions impact you. they’ll care about how you feel and will trip over themselves to fix things if there is an issue. remember this when someone you love and respect treats you the opposite.
Watching the Jeffrey Dahmer documentary and something stood out. He was wildly transparent with everything— to a point that made people physically sick.
The one thing he couldn’t talk about? His childhood. This speaks volumes.