girls.... pleaseeeee pick the gentle one. the kind one. the one who brings you peace. the protective one. the one who is sure of you. the one who respects you. the one who understands your silence.
my mom once told me "accountability will always feel like an attack when you are not ready to acknowledge how your behavior harms others" and that shit is real.
this may sound harsh, but as a woman you cannot surround yourself with a bunch of miserable women and thrive. I know everyone has their moments and goes through things but some are just internally miserable and will never be able to lift you or genuinely be happy for you.
i want to marry into a family that actually feels like home. sunday dinners, birthday celebrations, holiday traditions, spontaneous movie nights, laughter around the table, games that get way too competitive, warm hugs at the door, and group chats that never stop lighting up.