THINGS I’M NO LONGER APOLOGIZING FOR:
* My feelings
* Having boundaries
* Saying NO to something I’m not really interested in doing
* Not answering the phone when I can’t or don’t feel like it
* Taking a break
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And when you pray tonight..pray for the wisdom to understand that two emotions can co-exist simultaneously. You can be happy and sad at the same time, happiness wont wait for you to be sad vice versa. You must choose which emotion will dominate. It’s not an easy task but doable.
girls will be like idk why im so unproductive recently and then you ask whats going on in their life and they list eight lifestopping crisis and then say 'yeah but i should be fine :/'
You've mastered survival mode. Heal so you forgive yourself for what you did in survival mode, unlearn the survival tactics without turning them into self-sabotaging behaviors, and unlearn your own toxic patterns without becoming like those who traumatized you.
You deserve a calm love with someone who is good for your mental health and nervous system. Someone who is your safe space, your best friend, and brings peace to your soul during stressful situations.