@ElijWarner824@bunniculabunnie@valmean1@jaxajueny because women didn’t create the society that we live in??? like i’m so sorry but as a man you have to recognize 1. ur privilege and 2. that u are the ones who built this society with toxic standards and u guys are the ones who have the power to take it down
@TedAdorko@stay_off_topic@pologisgoated@lidodecker@kindaworkin parents are completely different than a partner. and the power we are talking about here is that she has been a fan of this man since she was 15. he holds some sort of power over her because of that. you can’t just take that power away.
@TedAdorko@stay_off_topic@pologisgoated@lidodecker@kindaworkin if ur in love with someone who holds power over you, if they’re even a halfway decent person, they won’t pursue the relationship. “love” has been the mask men have used to disguise their awful behaviors ever since society began. i could care less about love, i’d rather be free
@JohnDumb9@lidodecker@kindaworkin i never said that? i said if they’re addicted to something you’re a shitty person if you never try to help them. whether they accept the help or not has nothing to do with you. the point is that you try and don’t just turn a blind eye
@tempestis @pologisgoated@stay_off_topic@lidodecker@kindaworkin it is: when one partner (or a group of partners) is able to dominate decision- making or otherwise asserts power in ways that disadvantages other partners or are not in the best interest towards achieving the partnership objectives. if you idolize someone, they hold power over u
@tempestis @pologisgoated@stay_off_topic@lidodecker@kindaworkin i’m arguing that at 20 years old your life is completely different from a 30 year olds. it is different with 50/40 year olds because they are usually at the same place in life. i also would like to point out that power imbalances don’t only happen within age gap relationships,
@TedAdorko@pologisgoated@stay_off_topic@lidodecker@kindaworkin i would say that while that is a problem, it isn’t so much the case anymore where one partner is making all the money and the other partner is doing everything else. most of the times nowadays both partners have an income.