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Good Thoughts, good WORDS and good DEEDS

[Eric @amerix]

Men,

Every masturbation addiction survives because it is protected by lies.

"Just one more time."

"I will stop tomorrow."

"It is not affecting me."

These are lies disguised as comfort.

Identify the lie.

Destroy the lie.

#MasculinitySaturday

[Eric @amerix]

Men,

Freedom from porn and masturbation exists in the space between impulse and action.

It is a tiny gap:

• A brief moment.

• That single decision.

The quality of your life is determined by what you do in that gap.

#MasculinitySaturday

[#𝐍𝐚𝐭𝐞 @RealNate08]

Nikipata pesa mzuri najirudishia shukrani hio side ya nguo man I've been dressing like a homeless mf for so long

[Eric @amerix]

You can lie down for people to walk on you, and they will still complain that you aren't flat enough.

[Eric @amerix]

Men,

MENTAL WELLNESS |

Train people that access to you is a privilege, not a public road.

Train them that patience has limit, and your boundaries are not negotiable.

Don't tolerate disrespect whether online or offline

Guard your mental frame.

#MasculinitySaturday

[Eric @amerix]

Men,

Finally,

The world doesn't protect men who don't protect themselves.

Don't be vulnerable.

Refuse to be weak in the mind, and soft in the body.

Be an OAK, firm during a storm, calm in silence, commanding inner authority.

Guard your mental frame.

#MasculinitySaturday

[Eric @amerix]

Men,

A man who cries in public like a child because of emotions, is a disgraceful man.

A shame to himself, his inner world, and the people who depend on his stoicism.

A man cries in private. His tears drop in silence. In the darkness of his shadow.

#MasculinitySaturday

[Eric @amerix]

Men,

Keep your wounds private.

You are not the only one suffering,

If other men were to show you their wounds, you would be shocked.

Every time you expose your wounds of suffering to random people,

You hand people the power to hurt you even more.

#MasculinitySaturday

[Eric @amerix]

Men,

When life first turns against you,

It will first attack your emotions,

When a woman turns against you,

She will provoke your emotions.

Protect your emotions like GOLD.

When you protect your inner world, the outer world loses power to control you.

#MasculinitySaturday

[Eric @amerix]

Men,

A man who overcomes lust, gluttony and greed has solved 90% of his problems.

A man's first battle is self-betrayal,

A man's first victory is self-restraint.

The man who can govern himself has the power to command success.

#MasculinitySaturday

[Eric @amerix]

Women should know that,

Submission is not silence.

Neither is it slavery nor servitude.

Submission is the wisdom to understand structure.

A home with two captains and no first mate does not sail anywhere.

It will drift and collapse.

Order in a home requires hierarchy.

Hierarchy requires the MAN to lead and the woman to support the lead.

This is not weakness at all, but rather the architecture of the family institution.

[Robert Greene @RobertGreene]

Any man who tries to be good all the time is bound to come to ruin among the great number who are not good

[Robert Greene @RobertGreene]

When our emotions are engaged, we often have trouble seeing things as they are.

[Eric @amerix]

Men,

Before you commit,

Check her close friends.

If they have been in several failed relationships and aborted marriages,

Don't commit.

Respect yourself.

#MasculinitySaturday

[Eric @amerix]

Men,

Your grandfather did not fight colonialists for you to fight another man because of a woman.

Your grandfather fought colonialism so that you may have the freedom to appreciate your self-worth as a man.

DO NOT BE A SIMP

#MasculinitySaturday

[Eric @amerix]

Men,

GREAT SEX begins in your mind.

A man without mental frame is weak.

• Anxiety kills erections.

• Neediness kills attraction.

Master your mind and your body will follow.

Sex is an expression of a man fully commanding himself.

#MasculinitySaturday

[Eric @amerix]

Men,

If you want to be a writer, read books.

If you want to be a good writer, read fictional books.

If you want to be an excellent writer, read ancient books.

If you want to be a mediocre writer, read newspapers.

#MasculinitySaturday

[🧸 @_y3maya]

I’ve never met anyone who reads books and isn’t smart

[Eric @amerix]

Masculine boredom is a sign of growth.

It is the state where you no longer find pleasure in shallow conversations, cheap thrills, or empty nights.

This kind of boredom is not depression, it is TRANSITION.

It means you are growing from:

• Consumer to CREATOR.
• Noise to ORDER.
• Distraction to DESTINY.

Embrace and value this boredom because this is where your seeds will germinate and flourish.

[48 Laws Of Power Bot @48_quotes]

We admire the bold, and prefer to be around them, because their self-confidence infects us and draws us outside our own realm of inwardness and reflection.