Keep me and my Wife in your prayers fam, we are experiencing some difficulties finding each other.
I trust God to show up for us before the end of the year.
Your kids will not thank you for this, neither will your husband. You will develop resentment over not being properly appreciated for sacrifices you weren't asked to make and your family will be baffled when you one day explode at them.
No single benefit for men in marriage to be honest. Imagine providing , protecting, mowing the lawn, lifting the heavy items, repairing the generator, fixing the cars, working at the shore, planning dates, buying dress, paying for uber, spending all your earnings on a woman who just do nothing in return.
This is why I advise every man to marry their fellow man so that efforts can match and the other person will understand your sacrifice well because they are in that position too.