today, a grown man made me cry and then looked me in the eyes and said if i understood him i wouldn’t feel upset so clearly i didn’t understand what he meant
it upset me but i can’t change their behavior. i am responsible for me. i’m going to figure out how i can comfortably & peacefully move forward from this with my head held high. i’m taking it personally but maybe it isn’t personal. maybe it’s just life. i’ll adjust. i always do.