Beware of serial lovers. People that don’t know how to be single for long stretches of time without feeling complete discomfort, are often running from themselves and will use you to do that.
i think it’s important to extend grace to the people in your life when they do something you don’t like. not everything is a sign of calculated disrespect, sometimes they’re just humans making human mistakes
I wish people understood that when someone seems to overexplain, it's often because of how much they've been misunderstood. They're trying to give you information that they assume is hard to understand based on how they've been treated. This deserves compassion, not criticism
I don’t like when people turn weirdo over things that could have been solved by a simple conversation… now I don’t respect you and we’ll never speak again.
I don’t like when people turn weirdo over things that could have been solved by a simple conversation… now I don’t respect you and we’ll never speak again.
People swear you like to argue. No, I hate arguing. But dismissing me, gaslighting me, yelling at me, or making me feel like I have to fight to get my point across will inevitably lead to an argument.
You should never be expected to be the bigger person when you didn't create the discomfort in the first place. Too many people cause the chaos, cross the line, and then want you to swallow your feelings just to keep the peace. Nah. Accountability matters. Being mature doesn't mean accepting disrespect or cleaning up messes you didn't make. Sometimes protecting your peace means standing firm and letting folks sit in the consequences of what they caused.
I honestly can't wrap my head around people who have zero empathy. Like, how do you not pause for even one second and picture how it would feel if someone did the exact same thing to you?
personally, i will never be cool with people who are unable to have consideration and empathy for you when they are under distress. if you are doing trifling shit under the guise of “i was going through a hard time” i’m out. i don’t want it.
I stay away from people that assume I don’t care because they expect to see it in explosive, toxic, emotionally disregulated ways to believe it. Even if I show it in so many other ways. They will push your buttons to get you to react in those ways and create really toxic environments just to feel it.
I hate when I end things with someone and you can tell they’re tryna UNO reverse and make it seem like they’re ending it with me. Like ok? You can have it. Whatever makes you go away actually.
I’m not sure people understand the damage they do and this is why they think about access before they think about apology and remedy. At no point do you hurt someone so bad and reach out for casual idle conversation. You have to truly ask yourself does this person want me in their life? Probably not. And if you’re gonna do anything, an apology or request to actually speak on what happened and be accountable would be best. Address the elephant or leave them alone.