Disrupting a toxic family pattern can feel lonely, because the people who taught it to you may not recognize what you’re doing. Keep going. Someone younger than you will inherit a softer world because of it.
You can’t hate yourself into becoming someone you love. Change built on shame tends to collapse the first time you have a bad week. Try building yourself up with care, and give yourself permission to grow without making an enemy out of the person you used to be.
If you don’t want a baby, act like it. We too old and have to be moving like babies are always oopsies.
Stop having unprotected sex, stop having sex, get a vasectomy.
You can’t control nothing but your seed. Once that makes a baby it’s out of your hands.
I think we should be teaching children metaphysics and universal laws, the power of saying no, the art of discernment, the power of silence and stillness, the law of detachment, the truth about money (it's just energy), the importance of connecting with nature and grounding ourselves, the power of forgiveness, and, most importantly, the importance of having fun and playing.
And above all, the golden rule: “As within, so without”
shit changes when you decide you’re ready to be seen. ready to be supported. ready to feel good. ready to be loved. ready to be free. ready to have more friends. ready to be creative. ready to shine. take everything you put out so effortlessly and give it all back to yourself.
After being micro-cheated on for 2 years which eventually led to being full blown cheated on….let me tell you something- THAT SOCIAL MEDIA SHIT IS EXACTLY WHAT YOU THINK IT IS 😭