Never underestimate a cycle breaker. Not only did they face years of generational trauma, but they stood in the face of that trauma and said “This ends with me.” This is brave. This is powerful. This comes at a significant cost. Never underestimate a cycle breaker.
describing women who clean and run a house, look after multiple children and source and prepare food for a spouse as “not working” is surely one of the most successful conspiracies of the 20th century
A sign of emotional intelligence is moving from “You made me feel” to “This is how I reacted.”
Our emotions aren’t caused by other people’s actions. They’re shaped by our interpretations.
Blaming others gives them power over our feelings. Taking responsibility empowers us.
I call on @VancityReynolds to revamp the current format of corporate security training courses. There are many formats out there and everyone can agree they all absolutely suck. You are the guy to make them not suck.
Being a parent is great if you are open to putting suncream on a plastic ironman figure despite it causing you to be late for the school run because your 5 year old insists he can't live without knowing it's being protected by UVAs
#parenting
Blaming and shaming doesn't stop people from making mistakes. It stops them from admitting mistakes.
If people can't share their blunders, they can't learn from them—and neither can the rest of us.
The best way to prevent errors is to make it safe for people to discuss them.
I can tell you first hand, having to worry about childcare months before my first child was born was unnecessary stress. Not to mention I hadn't even laid eyes on him yet and had to think about where I would be leaving him.
Support women owned businesses, advocate for accessible+affordable childcare, read about what the "mental load" is, invite your female colleagues, read from female authors, attend female led panels, show appreciation for the female family members, friends and partner. #IWD2023
I've started reading this book and not even half way in, it has opened up a new perspective of others, an awareness of my own upbringing and as a mother: the tools to raise empathetic, emotionally intelligent children. Highly recommend.
A year ago, I released #WhatHappenedToYou with @BDPerry. Our hope was that the book would help people heal from their childhood traumas and shift the question from “What’s wrong with you?” to “What happened to you?”
The lessons we teach our kids are often the ones we need to relearn.
It's not a coincidence that our favorite children's stories focus on kindness, honesty, responsibility, persistence, and courage.
The values we learn in kindergarten are the ones that matter most in life.
The mother influencers talking about easy, at home sensory activities as if I have a rainbow of food colouring options, corn starch and shaving cream just hanging around the house