Dear Man,
Never be afraid to start from scratch. Starting over isn’t weakness.
It’s proof you learned. Most men stay stuck because their ego can’t handle rebuilding.
Real power is saying:
I’ll do it again. But better.
@CalvinMutsinzi Young lads should stay focused on improving their wallets and health.. all these attacks come from females who have failed both in life and relationships. Not worth our time or space
Africa still has no permanent seat on the Security Council.
A 21st century Security Council without permanent African representation is unjust & indefensible.
We must reform the Council so that it reflects today’s world with the legitimacy and effectiveness that today’s challenges demand.
Most men are timid and shy
U NEED to be willing to move first
Stop waiting for the perfect moment or for people to make it easy for u. Say what u think. Ask for what u want. Start the conversation. Take the fucking initiative.
Don’t be afraid to be seen. If u believe something then say it. If u want something then go for it. It doesn’t even matter if u get a NO bruv just take the feedback and keep moving.
Learn to read the room. Don’t walk in already trying to figure out how everyone sees u. Pay attention to what’s actually happening. Stay relaxed. Make ur move and let reality tell u what comes next.
Practise it. U won’t become confident overnight. Keep moving first.
Easy as
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Understanding government is not just about knowing titles and offices. It’s about understanding how our society works, how public decisions are made, and where citizens fit into the bigger picture.
Let’s break it down
I am going to say this, and this will probably be my last take on this issue.
A minority group of privileged people has a problem with state guidance on decency. They turn it into a problem of the majority, take to social media claiming to speak for that majority, and then, when a loophole in implementation presents itself, demand that the entire country come to a standstill.
I am 100 percent sure the majority of Rwandans understood or agree with the President and the institutional guidance on decency.
Let me be clear again: the biggest issue facing the ordinary Rwandan woman today is not whether the dress she wants to wear is short or long, or whether the state is telling her how to wear it. For many women, the bigger question is whether they can afford that dress in the first place, while also feeding and taking care of their children.
Then you have another group, so privileged that they have so much to wear, whose biggest concern has become having the right to wear next to nothing.
This is the situation we have at hand.
You cannot convince me that a group whose biggest concerns in this conversation are how to dress and access BK Arena or public areas is speaking for the majority of Rwandan women. No.
I have also seen people saying, “I can't get out of the house.” That creates the impression that Rwanda is some kind of unsafe hell for women. It is not. In fact, if I were the Government, that is one of the things I would be concerned about.
Rwanda is a safe country for women. We know this.
But the recent social media outrage has made it sound as though women and girls are living in constant fear. It has also painted men broadly as abusers and harassers, which is simply not true.
The safety of a country cannot be measured by one or two incidents arising from implementation, particularly when those incidents have been addressed.
At the same time, let's not lose sight of the real problem. There are men who harass women on the streets because of how they are dressed. There are moto riders, fundis and other men who engage in harassment and abuse. They should be arrested. We should not tolerate that.
We need a society where women and girls can walk around freely and safely. We need quick and effective reporting mechanisms so that, for example, when a woman is harassed in Nyabugogo, she knows exactly where to report it and action can be taken against the perpetrator. Moto cooperatives need to take responsibility for their members. These are problems that can be tackled, and I believe they are being tackled.
But there are many pressing women's rights issues to fight for. Look around and you will find them.
How skimpy someone can dress in order to reveal a hidden tattoo at BK Arena is not one of them.
We are focusing our energy on the wrong priorities.
Wishing you nothing but peace. 🙏🏾✊🏿