Idan ka ga kana kan hanya mai kyau always keep reminding yourself ba wayon ka ba ne. May Allah preserve our hearts… May Allah keep us on the right path and May he conceal and forgive our sins.
This is the lesson from overspeeding. The moment she parked after the speed, the car she left behind sped past her in a second.
Therefore, there’s no point for overspeeding. You are just 10 minutes earlier at the most.
situations like this are probably part of why I struggle with social anxiety, you do something that feels completely harmless to you, and people end up making a big deal out of it. is life really this hard?
I think people underestimate how beautiful it is to become ordinary to someone.
To be loved when you're not interesting that day. When you're tired, sick, boring, stressed, and you don't have the willpower to entertain.
We put so much emphasis on keeping love exciting, on being amused, that we forget how intimate it is to become completely familiar with another person.
To come home after a long day, hang up the expectations of the outside world, and know that you are still chosen, just as you are.
Keep your problems smaller than your life. A flat tire is a flat tire. A bad meeting is a bad meeting. A canceled flight is just an extra two hours. These things become catastrophes when you let them. But they stay manageable when you remember the depth of your real life- the people you love, the work you care about, the beautiful years still ahead. Zoom out. Fit your reaction to the size of the problem.
Few days back, i saw Arewa women celebrating a man adding a wife(which might be a lie). What was the first wife’s fault? Her only fault is her husband showing her love publicly, grown adult women that are mothers (or soon to be one) felt this woman doesn’t deserve all the riches
I am sorry but this would manipulate me to buy her things everyday to get this reaction I am sorry 🥰🥰😘❤️all my money would be gone by end of salary week 😂😂😂
People who also become mothers:
—Women living with trauma.
—Women living with depression and anxiety disorders.
—Women that are outrightly mad.
And in situations like this, the wife probably just wants her husband to comfort her. If she doesn’t talk to her husband about her discomfort, who is she supposed to talk to?
I’m sure she didn’t tell him, ‘Go and tell your mother I don’t like how she spoke to me.’ He would have added beating before sending her home.
You guys act as though mothers are prophets who receive revelations and, therefore, can never make mistakes.