Don’t worry about people who doubted you, underestimated you, didn’t get you or didn’t see you. Don’t worry about proving them wrong, changing their mind or the ‘biggest flex’. Don’t seek redemption from people who didn’t care to know you. Focus your energy on you for a change.
I can’t stop being my kind, generous, fun, loving self, no matter how many times this world tries to break my Spirit. I can finally say I accept and adore this part of me. Regardless of how many times it ends up with me being hurt, I will never change who I am.
I’m a wonderful example of how you can still keep your whimsical personality after narcissistic abuse. Those abusive kinda of people expect you to kill your inner child just because they killed their own. Thats honestly their goal. They want you to be miserable and look at life negatively, just like them - even though they wear facades of peace and calmness.. their inner world is dark and chaotic. But I fought to keep all of the beautiful aspects of myself despite the abuse and despite people denying the fact that I was abused, simply because they still saw my light after the fact.
Some of us became emotionally independent because we had no choice. Every time life hurt, we had to sit alone and figure it out. Now, when people ask if we're okay, we don't know how to answer because we've handled everything alone for so long.
you want someone to transmit the frequency to you so you don’t have to build it yourself and I understand that and also that’s not how frequency works you can be in the presence of a regulated nervous system and feel the possibility but you have to go home and do the reps nobody can do the reps for you