Mel

God is love. Psalm 46:5.

[Mel @melgillard_]

God knows your heart and everything that comes from it.

[Mel @melgillard_]

This is the day the Lord has made;
We will rejoice and be glad in it.

[Mel @melgillard_]

🥰❤️

[Mel @melgillard_]

“Who would do that to a friend, let alone the one you love”

[Mel @melgillard_]

The grass is greener where you water it.

[Greg Berge @GregBerge]

10 Traits of Excellent Coaches:

1. Relationships First
2. Clear Standards
3. Emotional IQ
4. Self-Awareness
5. Communication
6. Growth Mindset
7. Master Teachers
8. Healthy Competitiveness
9. Humble
10. Build Leaders

[The Winning Difference @thewinningdiff1]

"...on the other side of an uncomfortable situation is growth.” - Dawn Staley

Average may be comfortable, but it's never satisfying. To be more, you have to be willing to do more.

[Mel @melgillard_]

Don’t let time make you settle where God didn’t call you to stay.

[Mel @melgillard_]

If they’re not willing, they’re not your person.

[Mel @melgillard_]

Be still.

[George Raveling @GeorgeRaveling]

It is with deep sadness and unimaginable pain that we share the passing of our beloved “Coach,” George Henry Raveling.

[TheBetterPath @TheBetterPath_]

15 Deep Lines About Self-care:

1.

[Wisdom Stoics @WisdomStoics]

Hard Truths of Psychology and Life:

1.

[George Raveling @GeorgeRaveling]

We all need truth tellers in our life.

[George Raveling @GeorgeRaveling]

You don’t need a certain job title, a specific set of skills, or a particular background to be a blessing and an answer to another person. You just need to be willing to pay attention, to care, and to act.

[George Raveling @GeorgeRaveling]

Our society stigmatizes failure. But great leaders embrace it — because loss is never the end, it’s part of the evolution.

[Greg Berge @GregBerge]

See a ‘Sports Parent’ sitting alone?

There is a reason.

- No drama.
- No negativity.
- No ignorance.
- No complaining.
- No badmouthing coaches or refs.

They just want to enjoy watching their child play.

Be a part of the solution.

Not the problem.

[George Raveling @GeorgeRaveling]

As a coach, you have to contribute more than wins and losses — you have to help people win in the game of life.

[Justin Su'a @Justinsua]

Great coaches set, protect, and embody the standard.

[Mel @melgillard_]

Emotional maturity and availability is 🔑

[Greg Berge @GregBerge]

Raising kids while coaching isn’t easy.

Long hours. Late nights. Constant demands.

But when done right, it’s one of the best environments for a kid to grow up in.

Here’s why:

1. They Learn How to Handle Adversity:

They see wins, losses, tough calls, and setbacks up close. They learn that success isn’t always fair, and how you respond matters more than what happens.

2. They Grow Up Around Strong Role Models:

Coaches, athletes, and leaders who model discipline, hard work, and resilience. They see firsthand what commitment and leadership look like.

3. They Understand the Power of Hard Work:

They see the extra hours in the gym, the film study, and the behind-the-scenes grind that most people never notice. They learn that success is earned, not given.

4. They Develop Thick Skin:

Growing up in a competitive, high-energy environment teaches them to take feedback, handle criticism, and keep moving forward.

5. They Build Meaningful Relationships:

They grow up surrounded by teams, coaches, and athletes. The locker room becomes an extension of their family, and the relationships built last a lifetime.

6. They Learn How to Lead:

Watching you lead a team teaches them the value of communication, accountability, and putting the team first. They absorb leadership without even realizing it.

7. They Become Adaptable:

Late nights, long road trips, and unpredictable schedules? They learn to go with the flow, adjust, and handle change without melting down.

8. They See Firsthand What Passion Looks Like:

They watch you give everything to something bigger than yourself. It teaches them to find and chase their own passions with the same intensity.

9. They Know What a Strong Work Ethic Looks Like:

Coaching isn’t a 9-to-5 job. They see sacrifice, dedication, and effort—and they carry that with them into whatever they choose to pursue.

10. They Appreciate the Value of Teamwork:

Whether they play sports or not, they grow up understanding that success isn’t about individual talent—it’s about how you work with others.

Yes, coaching while raising a family is a challenge.

But if you do it right, your kids grow up with a front-row seat to some of life’s greatest lessons.
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