It’s so fascinating how much people care and fixate on things that are so incredibly trivial. If you are living a meaningful life you are not concerning yourself with shit like this.
Major cheat code for life: Be fully where your feet are. When you're at work, work. When you're with family, be with family. When you're resting, rest. Most people are physically present and mentally everywhere else.
Most persons are so absorbed in the contemplation of the outside world that they are wholly oblivious to what is passing on within themselves.
– Nikola Tesla
It's scary to acknowledge how much longer your days feel when you don't psychologically retreat into technology
Makes you realise how much of your life has disappeared into various screens.
so much relational damage is caused by the need to appear to be “the good guy” in the situation. if you can be like “listen I get this might seem selfish and unfair but this is how I really feel” you’re often being far more altruistic
The more hardened a woman is by the world the worse wife and mother she makes.
The more softened a man is to the world the worse husband and father he makes.