I try to ignore xenogender stuff, but it's hard when people are clearly misusing transgender terminology and treating it as on par with gender dysphoria, which is a real, diagnosable condition. The 'I'm autistic so I experience gender as a concept/object/etc' angle is especially irritating given that's just not how autism works, coming from someone who has ASD and innumerable friends with it too.
People need to realize personality/interests and gender are not the same. It actively harms the queer community.
I try to avoid participating in xenogender discourse as it's very obviously adults and adolescents with arrested development misusing transgender and gender-diverse terminology and framing it as deep and complex queer experience equally as valid as transsexual medical conditions.
so they're just a trans person that likes roblox. a trans person having a hobby doesn't make that hobby a gender. i feel like im going insane why are people acting like these words mean anything
the mood board-ification of gender identities in these tumblr/bluesky type spaces needs to be studied. as a trans woman who’s actually transitioning i can’t help but laugh
i’m starting to think anyone who finds transitioning to be “fun” or “empowering” is either larping, doesn’t go outside, or lives in a very progressive place, because this shit is fucking scary and evil and i feel i’ve had a curse placed upon me by being born this way