I wish we talked more about the personal cost of being resilient through trauma. Continually being required to overcome trauma has a real impact on individuals that we don’t talk about enough, if at all.
Mass was removed, waiting on results to see if it was cancerous and if the margins were big enough to make sure cells don’t grow back 🥺🐶 Piccolo is a trooper and recovery is going well so far!
Yesterday was piccolo’s upsetting vet visit, today my aunt ceil died, who was more like a grandmother to me. I’m emotionally raw and exhausted and if one more thing happens this week I will lose whatever shit I still have composed within me.
A couple of Thanksgiving week reminders:
-There is no reason to comment on someone's weight, weight loss, or weight gain
-There is no reason to comment on how much or how little food someone eats
-Please do not assign moral associations to foods or the act of eating them
ppl come over to ur house and are like “can i get myself a glass of water” and ur like “sure” and u look over and they’ve chosen literally the most random glass you’ve ever seen