Everyday when you do what's needed, you tend to have less time to have any 'feelings' for women . Paradoxically, they like you even more when you're genuinely busy improving yourself. They don't want your love. They've got a lot of love to give to you when you're simply the price and acting exactly like it. Don't be theatrical though.
Just be obsessively engaged with your daily activities of self growth. Thats how you build value that accrues for a long period of time. Never let infatuation seal the thinking section of your brain.
right now, your only priority is getting your life back on track and becoming the best version of yourself. don’t stress about who stays, who leaves, who understands, or who switches up. this season is about finally doing what is best for you.
heal your mind, rebuild your discipline, protect your peace, get your money right, strengthen your body, and return to yourself. whoever is meant to walk with the new version of you will meet you there.
The trick is to treat your life like a game.
Nothing is that serious.
Go to the thing for fun.
Ask her out for fun. Write for fun. Publish the thing for fun. Fuck for fun. Live for fun.
Walk into that stupid fucking interview like you’re playing another round.
Every day is another level.
Every fuck up is XP.
Watch your anxiety disappear.
Every morning the dice hit the table again.
I don't know who needs to hear this but someone recently told me "no amount of waiting will make you more brave, and no amount of worrying will make it more safe."
And honestly I think about this everyday.
right now, your only priority is getting your life back on track and becoming the best version of yourself. don't stress about who stays, who leaves, who understands, or who switches up. this season is about finally doing what is best for you. heal your mind, rebuild your discipline, protect your peace, get your money right, strengthen your body, and return to yourself. whoever is meant to walk with the new version of you will meet you there.
Just vibe code slop and get it into production. Go as fast as you can. Later models will make the architecture beautiful in 6 months. That's not your job, human.