If you have big goals, realize that the journey will take everything and promise nothing. This is the deal. Don’t be so entitled to think you’re owed results just because you put the work in. You’re not owed shit. But even if working hard doesn't guarantee success, not working hard guarantees with absolute certainty that you will fail.
We have said this hundreds of times,
Once you have sex with a woman and she becomes pregnant,
• Accept responsibility,
• Do not force the woman to abort,
• If the woman elects to abort, leave her, dump her,
• Do not kill a woman just because she has refused to abort,
Abortion is a spiritual transgression, and no matter how long you hide it, it will haunt you for life.
Something else,
If you make your other woman pregnant, own it up. Don't fear your current woman.
Don't harm the other woman to please your current one.
However, if you know you are not ready for the consequences, then,
• Wear a condom
Or,
• Abstain
Are we angels?
NO.
Are we MEN?
Yes.
Men are rational and logical people who control their emotions and are aware that choices and actions have consequences.
CHANGE or PERISH.
Major cheat code for life: Make peace with being unimpressive to the outside world. Drive the normal car. Wear the simple clothes. Live below your means. Stay in the committed relationship. The ability to look ordinary while building an extraordinary life is wildly underrated.
You don’t need to be cold. Just inaccessible. Respond slower. Reveal less. Be polite, but unreadable. When people have to guess how you feel, they start treating you like someone they can’t afford to miscalculate. That’s how distance breeds influence.