guys, if you lose interest in a person, please make them aware. the coldness in ur tone and texts, the emptiness in your hugs, and spaces in your conversations... calls not answered, those things hurt more than if you were to tell the truth, because they are like a slow death.
Detachment isn't absence, it's restraint. You still care, still notice, still remember the dates and the details. But you silence the urge to reach out, hold back the words, let the distance stay. It’s not that you've stopped feeling, it's just that you've stopped acting on it.
there's nothing more embarrassing than looking back at a relationship with someone and seeing all the ways you settled. all the times you begged for attention, a text back, a phone call, a date, reassurance. all of those things should be a given.
long term relationships really come with a lot of forgiveness..... don’t think u bouta have 3+ perfect years with someone. we all have flaws and toxic traits so find someone you can grow and become better with.