@maizie_star and it's like you have ten minutes between when they're asking in a slightly judgmental way because you're "too young" and when they start acting like "oh??? well if not, better hurry up"
men are task-based socializers and women aren't in general. a women will have the library of Alexandria in her head and still socialize with pleasantries and talking about people and the social dynamics, while men talk about things so men assume women don't know things.