sex goggles are very real and result in lapse of judgement. some symptoms:
- finding their bad jokes funny (theyโre not)
- thinking their small habits are cute (probably gross)
- gushing over their memes (kinda lame)
- believing they like you back (keep your doubts)
topics to avoid on a first date:
- politics (makes you pick sides)
- parents (family dynamics vary a lot)
- past relationships (donโt dredge it up)
good luck โจ
to all the guys who are nicer when girls ignore them than when girls give them attention: ๐๐ป๐๐ป๐๐ป๐๐ป๐๐ป
have fun staying single โจ
โfind someone who does X for youโ
โfind someone who looks at you like Xโ
โfind someone who treats you like Xโ
but if youโre not willing to do the same for that someone, theyโre still not it.
itโs monday. time to think about dates.
fall ideas:
- go see the foliage together
- pumpkin patch / pumpkin carving
- apple picking
- cooking classes
an honest reality about dating in nyc is that girls typically give guys at most one opportunity -> guy, if you canโt meet it, at least offer different plans
we chatted about the key to being โdifferentโ in the initial stages of a relationship. pay attention and notice what your SO wants to express vs how theyโre perceived. noticing and validating how they want to be seen is key.