your trauma response is valid for sure but don’t expect people to stick around just because they understand why it happened. they have every right to be like oh nah fuck that and dip out. if your trauma responses cause others stress, they’re allowed to set boundaries accordingly without being labeled a bad person for doing so.
How can a man throw away a girl who is working on her future, working and going to school, who's just as beautiful on the inside as she is on the outside, and that genuinely loves him and only wants to be with him and is proud to have him, like how is a man so dumb.
heal in a gym, heal in the sun, heal in front of the ocean, heal on late night drives, heal next to your loved ones, just find the peace in the messy & heal
I am glad to see a young woman seeing a red flag for exactly what it is and doing the right thing. I am sad her parents are trying to urge her to betray herself. I am delighted she is this wise.