in another life, gua pengen bisa maki-maki orang yang nyakitin gua, gamau jadi orang yang ga enakan, bisa speak up kalau gua gasuka sama hal itu, bisa ngata-ngatain orang yang seenaknya ke gua tanpa rasa "kasihan".
setiap kali gue ngelihat couples yang bisa bareng bertahun-tahun dan langgeng banget, isi pikiran gue langsung otomatis mikir: “How many times did they choose to forgive and fix things?”
Rachel Vennya’s bilang :
selalu siapin ruang kecewa untuk siapapun, bcs people change easily. Manusia yang biasanya kamu ceritakan seluruh kisahmu itu bisa jadi manusia yang kamu gak mau kenal lagi untuk selamanya karena “people change easily”
AGREEEEE !!!!!
Hal-hal yang terlihat seperti cinta:
1. Sleepcall
2. Fast respon
3. Long text
4. Kirim makan/minuman
5. Obsesi
6. Kado dan uang
Hal-hal yang sebenarnya cinta itu:
1. Respect
2. Support
3. Kepercayaan
4. Validasi
5. Komitmen
6. Memaafkan
7. Toleransi
8. Komunikasi
gausah adu aduan pencapaian lah, dizaman sekarang lu ga living together, ga bunting duluan, ga dugem, ga nyiksa ortu buat gengsi, hidup lempeng-lempeng aja udah mantep banget
Rumusku :
Kalo sayang sama orang, mentokin semuanya. Berjuang sekeras kerasnya. Biar kalo sakit hati, sakitnya luar biasa, mentoknya luar biasa.
Jadi, pas udah gai sama dia, gak ada lagi sisa cinta, benar benar habis tak tersisa.
Baru nanti memulai dengan orang baru, dengan cinta baru, tanpa bayang-bayang masa lalu.
Begitulah caraku menghormati pasanganku.
Many men dream of having a woman with a big heart, but what they often forget is that a big heart comes with big feelings.
She's passionate. She cries over the little things. She feels joy deeply, sadness deeply, and yes even anger deeply. But she will love you in a way no one else ever could.
You can't expect someone with a big heart to have small emotions. If you want her love, you need to have a big understanding too. Because her love won't be quiet, it will be fierce, full, and more than you've ever known. She will notice the smallest details. She will remember your words. She will sense your pain even when you try to hide it. She will care for you without you asking. Her heart will carry your burdens as if they were her own.
But that same big heart can be hurt deeply. It can worry without reason. It can overthink the tiny things. And it will need your patience.
Because a big heart will give you the purest, strongest love, but it will also need the purest, strongest understanding.
i want to see you everyday not because i'm clingy, or jealous, or dependent.
NO! i want to see you because you make me smile. i want to hug you, kiss you, and tell you i love you. want to see you smile and feel your hand in- my hand. we don't have to do anything at all. just want to love you, that's all.