@RealPostFolder Hence why I did the healing and therapy before jumping into another relationship. I definitely deserve the new man in my life. No baggage just pure peace. My man is also emotionally mature to understand everything too. And knows my ex sooo…easier.
@RealPostFolder Not toxic. When you’ve been abused & hurt in past relationships. Conflict & mistreatment is the norm. And kindness feels like a “set up”. The guy needs to reassure your safe, not overwhelm with kindness, little steps and patience.
@NarcissistBox That it was my fault and that I am lazy. He brought a drink over to me. My heart raced. I knew somehow he’d throw this one kind gesture into my face in our next argument. You know how many times I have to say thank you when someone gives me a drink now? 😫.
@i_li911 Agree. Things happen with him just stroking my thigh 🥵. Deep connection and free to be exactly who we are. No drama, no baggage, just very good vibes.
@QueenMab87 I would say it is a big compatibility issue. You can’t change your partner. They are who they are. You either have to accept it and find other ways of intimacy (together) or find a better match.
@Ravenismeee Don’t use words, use actions. Give him seductive eye contact frm across the room, brush your hand across his body as you walk past, a soft smile… little things like that to say “you’re driving me crazy, I want you”.
@softpinkgiggles The freedom surpasses hunting for a new man to meet societal standards. Whilst I do have a beautiful deep intimate companion,There’s no pressure. I have friends, family, my own life etc. ultimate happiness really 😌.
@AbakpaJob We have to sing a celebratory jingle to the dog (he jumps and dances) and then shake his paw before he eats his dinner strictly at 4:30pm every day. I don’t know how that ritual happened.
@cessonmute Legally and financially it is true. If one person has more financial assets, the other partner can claim them after 2 years of living together (in Aus). No marriage is needed. The other partner will
Always win due to many types of contributions. Sad but true.
@punishedmother Look, I’m an incredibly open person. But Holy moly! Can she just do something that is not male centred?! Can she give her unborn child dignity? I can’t help but my shake my head at this😣. Terrible.
@artfuIchaos I have that combo person in my life. And I know it’s rare. But it took many months to dismantle my intense fear of being vulnerable. Almost bracing myself that he might hurt me. Now I feel free. It does feel so good.😌