@LinettePaille@NataliaBower100 Well hes an idiot and that mentality is not in all menπ. But you seem to be ranting about the black community and i agree! And surely with you bringing up all the stats that heavily favor black men then your op was strictly referring to black men, riiight?
@LinettePaille@NataliaBower100 The main point im getting at is it seems like your backtracking in your op, obviously youre being hyperbolic, but being hyperbolic means that you think that at the very least most dads(whatever most is to you) dont give a shit about being a dad. Which isnt correct
@LinettePaille@NataliaBower100 You correctly touched on going to extremes to make a point. If we dont do that we'd see that a vast majority of men acually do wanna be fathers. For no other reason then the reward being a stable life with meaning. Why go to said extremes?
@LinettePaille@NataliaBower100 If by trap, you mean said man couldnt care less about the consequences of unsafe sex then yes, i agree. But that also falls on the mother for being an idiot on who she sleeps with. Not to be lewd, but ive never have unsafe sex with women without understanding the consequences
@LinettePaille@NataliaBower100 In your op, you clearly talk about "trapping a women" or how dads(who are clearly around or else your post doesn't make sense) dont wanna acually be there. Nothing about how their are plenty of a hole dads who see their kid once every 4 months, because obviously id agree with you
@LinettePaille@NataliaBower100 Are we gonna argue that absentee fathers dont wanna be fathers or are you being deliberately dishonest? Ill bite, yes lady on twitter, dad's who arent there and dont give a shit about their kid dont wanna be fathers. Your post clearly is talking about dads WHO ARE present.
@EvanHillHB@annagaming131 I like phoenix, the only thing I strongly dont like is lookin at the friggen desert all day and the 4 months of shit heat. The cities kinda bland. But I like the amount of poker rooms, golf, hikes and weekend getaways. Would rather live here than most other places in the US
@Miles35545635@tawillionaire I just moved here a year ago, pay 1450 TOTAL for a one bedroom apt in Phoenix in a nice neighborhood making a measly 24 an hour starting a new trade. Coming from San diego that's fuckin amazingly cheap to me. And the wages are generally not to much higher in sd while rent is 2x
@Ravarora1 I know this is raigebait cause its clearly retarded, but i genuinely think indian men might be the least desired demographic in the entire world.
@NataliaBower100@LinettePaille (2)Unless i took your original comment incorrectly and you were just bringing up declining birth rates for the hell of it without any relevance to the op(which do this convo would make alot of sense lol) then I care about why the there is, to a degree, people not having kids
@NataliaBower100@LinettePaille (1)natalia, im not interested in discussing declining birthrates in asia. Or honestly the US in the 70s for that matter. My concern is the OP saying something dumb and you insinuating that men arent interested in having kids due to lack of child labor in 2026.
@NataliaBower100@LinettePaille Well of course?lmao I dont doubt that the worst economic collapse in the west had most everythingto do with lack of BR.Where you and I are from, lack of CHILD LABOR is not the reason for a current decling birth rate in western society. Nothing of what you said would disprove that
@NataliaBower100@LinettePaille Do you just wanna have a negative connotation of men so you can have an objectively bad argument? No, thats not the reason for the declining birthrate. Its the rise of influence on social media, rising cost of living and the desire for individualism or singleness as a whole.
@zectrillionaire Traveling is fun, get away, get outta your comfort zone a little, hit on the locals and try and do something "out there" but thats it, thats the extend of its "amazing life changing experience" that people try and sell you. Take away social media 95% of people wouldn't go.