@Tank_Richardson@aspwned@zaiveraa__ @MichHoivata This is how a lot of abusive situations begin. If it got to the point where she had no money at all then there would be a power dynamic change that can make a bad situation worse. Maybe it’ll get better when she gets back to work but that could be months from the time of posting
@Tank_Richardson@aspwned@zaiveraa__ @MichHoivata Where reversed I’d feel the same exact way. One of the people in this relationship is living a lifestyle the are not able to afford and is not being supported by the other. Also speaking on traveling, they are literally going to see HIS family. I would hope he’d pay for that.
@Tank_Richardson@aspwned@zaiveraa__ @MichHoivata It’s not about him paying for it all? If she is already being extremely drained by the bills she has to split now then she most likely already couldn’t afford it— again he’s making 4x her salary he is not being affected by this and they are literally married.
@Tank_Richardson@aspwned@zaiveraa__ @MichHoivata He couldn’t even pay for most of the baby stuff, so how do you think he’s gonna respond to having to care financially for his family?
@Tank_Richardson@aspwned@zaiveraa__ @MichHoivata But it is. She’s actively being drained of her finances w no support from her husband who makes 4x her income. If this situation continued to the point she had no more money in her savings and she has no choice but to rely on him what do you think is gonna happen?
@Tank_Richardson@aspwned@zaiveraa__ @MichHoivata When they had a baby and she had to buy most of the baby stuff. She literally isn’t getting paid on leave and has to take most of her savings(75%)to make the payments while that’s not even 30% for him. If you see your partner struggling and are just watching that’s not normal 🤷🏽♀️
@Tank_Richardson@zaiveraa__ @MichHoivata I mean she’s already paying for the baby alone and i can only imagine how involved he is in the baby’s life lmao
@Hellowo80645672@DMAFTMPersonal @MichHoivata That’s not true though because she still is being affected by bills much more than he is and he’s not doing anything to help her. I don’t imagine she chose to live in a house that is so far out her price range.
@Hellowo80645672@DMAFTMPersonal @MichHoivata He’s literally earning 280k a year and it’s not just her baby. She shouldn’t have needed to ‘save up much more’ he should be helping to save aswell.
@Realest_Ever19@Gbemisoke That’s not who this post is talking about though? This is talking about the fathers who don’t live with their kids or interact with them regardless of if they’re busy or not.
@Realest_Ever19@Gbemisoke Nah, there’s a difference between someone who’s trying to provide with what they have and someone who refuses to make any effort. If they can’t even be bothered to call their child ONCE in a week?? Never been there for not one milestone? Fathers get way too many passes now idc😒
@dannstacks@heavenblitzer@royalgreengal @SarakinArt2 @hornsonhalos In all honesty red could be making that attempt—If green was ready to throw the relationship away they were prob thinking about it, which means they most likely were showing signs of annoyance which might’ve sent red in a spiral where they tried to not annoy green by giving space