accountability is what helps me grow. playing the blame game and lying to myself is what helps me remain stagnant. my eyes are open now & i see how i’ve contributed to this dynamic before me. it’s unfortunate that i can’t give and give and expect to receive just as much.
Parents/family wonder why you’re so secretive but don’t create a safe space for you to share your personal life without criticism. If when I share my life it’s always followed by your unsolicited opinions or advice, Imma just stop sharing eventually.