@StrawberriCurls@jas_d_barbie Well, cowards is what you can call him superficially, but if you give it a deeper thought, then you'll understand why many people, not just men, but both men and women have made life risking compromise just to keep their families together...๐
@babybangbunny The ones we loved that much, wished other people people could love them as much as they love them. We begged for their attention while they begged for other people's attention.
Its all crude beer everywhere, unfortunately the brewery crashed awhile ago.. ๐
@uhveenyuh@SimpPolice911 You got this so right, many have interpreted softness for weakness, until the soft man raised a little bit of strictness then it became a "now you want to control me" kind of situation...i think there's often a bit of confusion with lack of choices... ๐
@SedrackTinka You guys like gaslighting.
Status & Ego Obstruct intent
Forget protocol, titles, and prestige in peace talks to prioritize human survival and conflict resolution. When negotiators get bogged down by status and ego, the primary goal of securing peace can easily be derailed.
@Iamkabareebe Naye @Iamkabareebe, you're trying to say disappointments are the reason why woman lose the straight path and opt for crooked path instead... ๐
Last time i checked, even men were marrying themselves...kati tugenda kola tutya.. ๐คจ
@jas_d_barbie 5. Avoidance of conflict and starting over
Modern dating scenes can feel brutal. Many me fear the uncertainty of singledom, rejection, or rebuilding. They normalize low-level unhappiness or compartmentalize (it's not that bad). Fear of the unknown keeps the status quo alive.
@jas_d_barbie 4. Practical entanglements
Finances, housing, kids, mutual friends. Divorce costs (legal, emotional, financial) are steep. For cohabiting & longer-term couples, it's not just "talk it out and leave" it can upend life. Men may also fear losing access to kids or facing judgment.
@jas_d_barbie 3. Sunk cost and inertia
Years invested, shared memories, routines, living situations. The good times were really good, people cling on hope that things will rebound intermittent reinforcement keeps people hooked in, like a slot machine.
@jas_d_barbie 2. Fear of loneliness and loss of emotional anchor
A relationship might be unhappy, but it's a familiar stability, losing it feels like emotional freefall. Men report more distress, loneliness, depression, and even higher suicide risk in some studies compared to women.
@lawrencekitema The interdependence that had them working together, is now interpreted weaknesses, everyone is convinced they can do without another....