You call her toxic now, but you met her when she was kind, open, and trusting. She became guarded because you kept hurting her, reactive because you kept crossing lines, and tired because she kept choosing you while you chose yourself. That wasn’t toxicity. That was damage.
i will cut you off one day and you’ll think it’s random but i've been clocking every single weird behavior because i’m highly sensitive and my intuition is powerhouse but i’m too forgiving so you’ve probably had more chances than you ever deserved
I like people who communicate, Tell me you’re busy, Tell me you lost interest, Tell me you need space, Just don’t disappear and come back like nothing happened.
Y'all are terrified of initiating conversation after conflict. I'm not your mother. I'm not whatever ex that used to blow up on you. I'm an adult that wants to hear you, be heard, and heal what's happened between us. Silence is not a resolution.
Girl to girl: be that girl again.
Get disciplined again. Take care of yourself again. Eat better & move your body again. Oil your edges & drink your water again. Start praying & reading your Bible again. Get your money up and sleep 8 hours again. Find your spark and put yourself first.