sometimes the biggest punishment you can leave a person with is just that they have to live their life being the unhealed person they are. trust that their world is a dark place for what they have done. trust the universe to bring you justice even when you’re not there to see it.
someone emotionally unavailable will treat your basic needs as if you are asking for far too much. an emotionally available person will do their best to meet your needs - and if they can’t, they will still validate them whilst communicating their own capacity and limits.
I’m officially at the age I don’t want to be around people who are not self aware. Continuously putting themselves in bad positions, making bad life choices, toxic ways/lifestyles, no priorities lacking accountability etc.
I don’t know who taught you that love is pain and chaos, but I hope they’re not in your life anymore. love is nothing like that - it is kind and nurturing.
last july i was in such a bad place in my life but here i am a year later literally the happiest i have ever been things really do get so much better🤍🤍