Sadaqah. Sadaqah always. Even a little. Even some food. Even giving the car guard. When you can, do alot. Sadaqah to avoid any kind of misfortune. Sadaqah to help extinguish the anger of Allah ta'ala. Sadaqah so that when life does get tough, it will be a little easier
The Japanese embassy is probably the only civilized embassy in the world. You pay for your visa after itβs approved.
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The Messenger of Allah PBUH said:
βWhen a person dies, all their deeds come to an end except three: ongoing charity, beneficial knowledge, or a righteous child who prays for them.β
β Sahih Muslim, Hadith 1631
Do not borrow shame from the past. You are not that person anymore and you simply didn't know better. No reason to beat yourself up for it.
All you can do is really do better.